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UPDATE: Former Mayor Jim Milano Dies at 102

The long-time and beloved Melrose mayor was a constant presence at city events and gatherings.

 

Editor's note: This article was updated on Wednesday at 2:15 p.m.

Former Melrose Mayor James "Jim" Milano, a beloved and respected icon of the city, died on Wednesday morning, weeks after turning 102 years old, according to the mayor's office.

Milano served as mayor from 1972 to 1992. A World War II veteran, Milano also served as a Melrose alderman—as did his father before him—for seven years before running for mayor.

During Milano's tenure as mayor, Melrose saw the construction of the current high school, renovations to City Hall and the revitalization of the downtown business district, including the introduction of the now-familiar Victorian lampposts.

Milano remained active in Melrose after leaving public office as a member of the Melrose Rotary Club and playing organ at St. Mary's Church. He was often seen—and heard from—at city events, including those honoring veterans.

Flags will be flown at half mast throughout the city in memory of Milano, the mayor's office said.

'They called him Gentleman Jim for a reason.'

Former Mayor Dick Lyons, who grew to be close friends with Milano and saw him the day before he passed away, took the reigns of the city from Milano in 1993. However, after winning the mayoral election in November 1992, Lyons said he immediately went to work in Milano's office for the two months before he officially became mayor.

The reason? Milano wanted to make sure that Lyons, who had never held public office before, met with all the right people and became familiar with City Hall operations.

"He—above anything else—loved this city," Lyons said. "Even those of us who remember him being in office, he never made a decision that wasn't what he believed was in the best interest of the city. Period. It’s incontrovertible."

Milano's first political endorsement was for Lyons' mayoral bid, which Lyons called an "honor," but also said that Milano would have done the same to help anyone stepping into the mayor's shoes, regardless of politics.

"They called him 'Gentleman Jim' for a reason," he said. "He was just the personification of an ethical man with integrity. There aren’t enough adjectives ... (Police) Chief (Rick) Smith from Wakefield called me this morning. He said that the mayor had helped him personally and professionally. Just hundreds of people. He was just a remarkable person—he probably did more things in his life than 20 of us could do in our lives collectively together. There’s not enough words and time to tell you about eveyrhting he done."

'An indelible mark on every corner of this community.'

In a statement emailed to Melrose Patch, current Mayor Rob Dolan said that Milano and his family left an "an indelible mark on every corner of this community and each of its citizens" over the course of a century. Dolan added that he is a member of a generation of  Melrosians who grew up only knowing Milano as the leader of the city.

"There are tens of thousands like me whose childhood was enriched by his leadership, his warmth and caring, and his commitment to education, our parks, and our quality of life," Dolan said. "We look to him in many ways as a second father. He was there during our triumphs on our playing fields, in the theaters, in the classrooms, and in the parks, and he shared life's tragedies with many of us with a special card, a pat on the back, or by going out of his way to make you feel special.

"There are many things people remember about growing up in Melrose, but no one ever forgets Mayor Milano," Dolan continued. "For that gift, this community can never repay him, and without question, he is in heaven today, after a life well lived."

Check back at this article for further updates and leave your remembrances of Mayor Milano in the comments below.

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Mike Margolis

12:06 pm on Wednesday, November 2, 2011

The end of an Era for Melrose. What a loss! RIP, Jim.

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Maureen Ball DeVivo

11:15 am on Thursday, November 3, 2011

We love you Jim! Here's to those Friday nights on Cutter and Grove Streets with Frank, George, my father and all the other wonderful citizens of Melrose. You lived a full and loving life and will be greatly missed. You will always be Mr. Melrose!

With love and sympathy,

Maureen Ball DeVivo

Myron Dittmer

12:19 pm on Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Truly a very sad day for the city of Melrose ......but we can all rejoice in his love, generosity, dedication, and his devotion to our city! A great man who contributed much to a great nation and a great city! Hey, Jim....enjoy the fruits of your labor up there! We'll all miss you!

Myron Dittmer

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Mary Fallon

6:39 pm on Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Thank you Mr. Mayor for being you. You will be missed.

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janet aguilar

7:56 pm on Wednesday, November 2, 2011

A great man has passed. He will be missed and remembered dearly.

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Mary Beth McAteer-Margolis

8:33 pm on Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Jim Milano was the best kind of elected official there is.. he transcended "Politics" and "Party" and did what was right for the people of Melrose. His kind, gentle nature belied his moral strength and commitment to doing the right thing. Thank you, "Mr Mayor", for your guidance, your friendship and your example. RIP
Mary Beth McAteer-Margolis

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Arthur Kaynor

7:55 am on Thursday, November 3, 2011

Rest in peace, Mayor Milano. If I ever make it to 102, I hope I can play show tunes as well as you still could.

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Dave Gray

2:35 pm on Thursday, November 3, 2011

Truly the most ethical man I ever met. His being such a genuinely nice man was a bonus. He embodied everything good about Melrose.

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arnold koch

8:17 pm on Thursday, November 3, 2011

Several years ago, there was a report in the Globe that Melrose would have to close one of its post offices because of the economy. I wrote a letter to the Free Press of protest. The day the letter appeared I was in LA. The phone in my hotel rang at 7 a.m (LA time). It was Mayor Milano in a rage. The Post Office would not close he said and it did not. Always on the job ! Arnold Koch

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Scott DeMeo

7:31 am on Sunday, November 6, 2011

I will miss serving you at dunkin donuts mr.mayor,i loved seeing your smiling face everyday,rest in peace dear friend,love the demeo's

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